Sunday, February 26, 2006

Bar's open again!

A forum administrator.

Egg-jactly.

That's what I had become. (Thanks for putting it in such apt words, Viv. Couldn't have done it better myself!)

I'd been feeling that for quite some time now; the recent incident only reminded me one more time.
So Aslambhai, Negative kid, don't give yourself too much credit that I took a break because of you. It takes much more than two guys who don't even know her, to break the mighty Sayesha :)

I'd been feeling it for some time now. That I'd been getting too hung up about the comments. What to reply, when to reply, whom to reply, how to reply.

Nonsense.

This is not how my blog started off as. It was never about the comments. It was just me, my thoughts and a bunch of people, hanging out at my bar and getting high on a strong dose of OJ, bad jokes, friendship and happiness.

My blog was never about me having to justify anything. But overwhelmed by the surge of comments, perhaps I had started doing exactly that.

And I got my dues.

Perhaps I was at fault. For thinking that if I don't hurt anyone, no one will hurt me.

Perhaps I was at fault. For thinking that everything around me is beautiful and happy.

But you know what? I will keep my faults.

I will not change my views. I will continue to believe that
everything around me is beautiful and happy. I refuse to be cynical, unhappy and negative, no matter how "in" or "cool" it is.

Because
this is me, the same old Sayesha. And this is how I will always be. Take me or leave me. The choice is yours.

I am a happy person by nature, and no matter how hard you try, you can't put a happy Sayesha down. Hell, even she can't keep herself down. Even her so called blogging break lasted less than 48 hours. (She's currently very busy rolling her eyes at herself.)

It's past midnight. I gotta get up at six to go to work tomorrow. But I'm so excited I can't sleep. So I threw my warm comforter aside and got out of bed. Things have suddenly cleared up in my head. I want to sing. I want to dance. I want to say "Mujhse dosti karoge, Aslambhai?" and really really mean it. Dil se.

And I want to blog.

And today, here in this post, I talk to myself once again. I remind myself of the old days of blogging. Small incidents I remember that make me smile to myself. And I feel strangely relieved. Because it's all coming back.

I will bring it all back.

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Remember the days when more friends than strangers read your blog?


Remember the days when all the comments on your blog were by people whom you knew in real life?

Remember the days when you couldn't wait till the end of the day so you could go home and blog?

Remember how mad Virdi got when someone thought he was a girl because he said he was jealous of you on the post he wrote about 'Sayesha's pretty hands'?

Remember the time Virdi described you on his blog as "
has little chinki chinki types looks but is pakka Hindustani, she even tells me "abe kar di na sardar wali baat."'?

Remember the days when Virdi used to say, "Sayesha apne yeh haath mujhe de de thakur!"?

Remember the days when Sahil used to say, "I know what you're thinking. I even know what you don't know you're thinking."?

Remember the days when ROS used to kill all the jokes in the post and then say "I killed the joke."?

Remember the friendships that were formed on your blog?

Remember the comment space that used to be our playground?

Remember the days of only four comments per post?

Remember the day when you blogged about Surreal Reality and how you missed your old musical band, and you had no idea he was reading it?

Remember the days when Soldier and Sahil used to discuss Soldier's apparently gay shirt?

Remember how Aye Kay jokingly said that you'd probably not complete Hopscotch-Cambodia by the end of 2005, and you proved him right, much against your will?

Remember the post (which incidentally had nothing to do with DCH) where everyone jotted down their favourite scenes from DCH till we had the full movie described in the comment space, sending Weird Hair Anil into fits of laughter?

Remember how freaked out you were when you found out that Siddhu's Mom and Clueless' Dad read your blog, considering your 'no access to the second generation' policy?

Remember the days when Keshav used to discuss songs from ye olde Hindi movies that you'd never even heard about?

Remember the days when you used to bug the hell out of Kini by using ROS-ish nicknames?

Remember the days when the banter on the comment space was much more fun than the posts?

Remember how hard you laughed when you were proudly telling Bananapen that your good friend Cubicle introduced you to blogger.com and she said that she was the one who had introduced Cubicle to it?

Remember the days when Abhi told you wanted to print out this post in colour and slot it under every door of the girls' hostel?


Remember the days when Spammy pretended not to give up even though you told him he's too young for you?

Remember the days when Bonatellis wanted to hire you in his company?

Remember the time when you said you would hire Siddhu and Leon as editors in your team?

Remember the days when you turned down Weird Hair Anil's 'marriage proposal' because his 'Will you marry me' question had an exclamation mark at the end instead of a question mark?

Remember the first bloggers' meet you attended in Singapore and how humbled you felt when you met the gods of Singapore-blogging?

Remember the days of frustration because Sumedh changed his blog address every couple of weeks?

Remember how the chatur chaar were formed?

Remember wanting to check up the geography of the US so you could make a a list of bloggers to visit when you went there?

Remember getting furious at 'the guy who apparently tried to hack into and delete (oh the horror!) Priya's blog', and then finding out that it was just a bug?

Remember having to call up Virdi and asking to speak to Fao because you were so damn bugged with the irrelevant and unmanageable 50 comments she and her colleagues used to post on your blog every day?

Remember becoming friends with Fao later, and exchanging ye olde Hindi songs over email?

Remember explaining to a frustrated Raven why you had to have word verification turned on?

Remember discovering Manish's blog, and having a hard time reading hindi words in English, and yet reading everything?

Remember turning down a fellow blogger's suggestion of not allowing anonymous comments or using comment moderation?

Remember wondering who Jupiter, Casablanca, Spamtaneous and Renegadefade were, because they sounded like familiar strangers?

Remember the days of trying to guess which one of your juniors Oxymoron was, and finally giving up?

Remember wishing you had a colleague like Puneet to make the office lively and happening?

Remember Naari trying to read into your cryptic posts and making requests such as 'What's happening, babe? Please update long distance junta!'?

Remember the days when Chints challenged you that he would find out your address and send you flowers and Kit-Kat from FloraIndia?

Remember the days when Vikram used to say "Yeh post toh mere sar ke oopar se guzar gaya, Sayesha!"?

Remember Kini falling asleep on his keyboard, barely a paragraph into your post?

Remember the days no one expected you to 'keep up the quality of your posts'?

Remember the days when comments were about the things you wrote the post, and not about you?

Remember the days when you used to blog only about incidents and not thoughts, so there was no judgement?

Remember your favourite post of all times, about the bar Sayeshaz, where all of us used to hang out and just get drunk on OJ?

Remember fondly thinking of 'The Girl who sold the world' and 'Negative Creep' as 'overgrown bachaas behaving like pachaas'?

Remember wondering who was crazier -- Chapaat or Virdi?

Remember Tinku's furious scoldings every time you mentioned death?

Remember how hilarious Vikram's first email to you was?

Remember trying to convince Kais and Harshi that they should start their own blogs?

Remember the time when you discovered that a couple of your commentators were juniors from your university who knew you personally?

Remember the people who met each other on your blog and emailed to tell you about it?

Remember the incredible number of strangers you connected with on your blog?

Remember the days of the simple joy of blogging?

Remember the days when it was so easy being Sayesha?



72 comments:

Anonymous said...

ME FIRST
WELCOME BACK. just when i was giving up. now i go read.
:-)
n

renegadefade said...

welcome back!

oh yeah me first!!!

but seriously back so soon? me was thinking that you'd go on a world tour or something and then come back wiser after a few years :P

renegadefade said...

grrr.. these anonymous ppl r getting to me too now.. just stole my first place

Anonymous said...

hahaha sorry renegadefade. i just dont have a bloggers a/c yet, will soon do it. until then, i remain, yours sincerely,
-n. and i was FIRST. :d

sayesha, i'm glad you rediscovered your joy and purpose of blogging. keep up the good work, woman. and a warm hug cos i was too much in a hurry in the previous post. :) (})

surreal reality said...

Well, he is still reading it and he still misses the old band..

Na koi hai na koi tha.. zindagi mein tumhare binaaaaa... tum dena saath mera...

Still remember trying to do a reggae version of this song to piss that Vinod fella off... bwahhahaha....

Princesse said...

Welcome back Sayesha :)... best news to start the week off!

freebird said...

hey sayesha, feels good to be back, huh? sure does feel good to read another post in sayeshaz :-) keep on bloggging foreverrrr...

pandora said...

:)

welcome back.
thank god..finally things pehle types! 'halke pulke' monacco jaise :D

PS: maine kuch zyada keh diya tha kya? :P

Rays Of Sun said...

Its all the same even now!
P.S:- What was Vikrams first hilarious email to you:?O
How come we never discussed that??
I knew hibernation wont last long!

Rays Of Sun said...

wheres my comment??tera blog space at my comment:(

Negative Creep said...

Welcome back. Good to see you're back on your feet, figuratively speaking. It'll be great to read your posts again...







Although, for such a beautiful and happy person, there seems quite a bit of hostility coming from that post.. Or is that just my "cool" negativity and cynicism??


Hahaha, just kidding... Hope you enjoy blogging...

-Overgrown Bachcha acting like Pachaas :P

Rays Of Sun said...

Oh there it is...HAHAHAHHA

Clueless said...

Yay!!! You're back!! :D (In celebration of Sayeshaz re-opening, do we all get free drinks? :P)

I didn't comment at all in the last post because I didn't want to get involved in the hulla-gulla going on there, but I'm seriously relieved ur back. I was a little worried back there. But here u are again, so no worries!!! :D

//Remember the days of only four comments per post?
Heh!! My blog is still at that stage, and its already been almost a year since I started it! Makes me realize how much effort you've put into your blog...although I guess you could argue that all this comes effortlessly to u :) Either way, u provide my daily dose of entertainment...so for that, thank you :)

And really, your post made me go 'Awwww!!' Cuz seriously, when you list it all down like that, it makes us all seem like one big happy family. Which, in many ways, I guess we are. So cool! :D

The Girl Who Sold The World said...

YIPEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!! WOO-HOOOOOO!!!!!!!! LALALALALA.
Naaah, it's not that I'm getting hyper...my day was unusually good and I'm just celebrating all the good things that happened today, here at Sayeshaz. CHEERZZZ!!! *Gulps down three drinks* :P

-Overgrown bacchi behaving like pachaas.

Aethyr said...

u sure u didnt miss out on anyone...??? majha naam kuthe hai??
i havent done anything significant or for that matter insigificant also...:(

ashish said...

thats why I read the things quietly ;)

Sayesha said...

#n,
Hey! Welcome back! :)

#Renegadefade,
//and then come back wiser after a few years

Wiser?? Naah, never gonna happen! Hahahaha! :D

//grrr.. these anonymous ppl r getting to me too now..

Hahaha! What a range of reasons why some anonymous people annoy, eh? ;)

#n,
Thanks for the hug yaar! Sometimes that's all one needs :)

#Surreal Reality,
Ah the old days... :)

//Still remember trying to do a reggae version of this song to piss that Vinod fella off

Hehehehe! :P

#Princesse,
Thanks for the warm welcome! :)

#Freebird,
Yeah! Feels gooooooood! Thanks! :)

#Pandora,
Thanks, girl! :)

//maine kuch zyada keh diya tha kya?

HAAN! Monaco ka mention kar diya! Now I want! :(

#ROS,
//What was Vikrams first hilarious email to you:?O How come we never discussed that??

Tu Viks se hi poochh na! :P

//I knew hibernation wont last long!

You know me too well, baby! :)

#Creepy kid,
//Although, for such a beautiful and happy person, there seems quite a bit of hostility coming from that post.. Or is that just my "cool" negativity and cynicism??

Hahahaha! Look at you still trying to dictate! :D

Bacha of pachaas, don't assume that I dunno the difference between being 'happy' and 'unnecessarily nice'. I can still protect my territory, and I can still kick ass. I just chose not to waste any more of my precious kicks on undeserving and insignificant asses. :)

Thanks for the welcome back! :)

#Clueless,
All drinks at Sayeshaz are always free! You mean someone's been charging you all this while??? Must be that bouncer I hired last week! Will fire him today. :/

And thanks for the comment, very heart-warming :)

#The Girl,
//*Gulps down three drinks*

Easy there, baby girl! You may behave like pachaas, but Sayeshaz doesn't serve alcohol to minors, rememnber that! So chup chaap se drink your OJ and wait for another year before you can touch the alc! :P

#Aethyr,
Sheesh! The one incident I remember about you is when I called you 'baby' and you asked me not to call you that. And look at you, behaving like one, right now! :P

#Ashish,
Long time, man! Sometimes it's wise to be silent, gotta learn a few things from you! :)

Vikram said...

hahahahaha, you had to make a mention of my email right?.. hahaha

chalo, koi baat nahi... glad to see you back... :)

Harshi said...

Sashy, welcome back!! :-)
So nice to have you back. Ofcourse, it never felt like you left in the first place :).

And you know......many-many such memorable moments lie on the way Sash. It's unfolding already...! :-)

Reverie said...

Surreal:
"Na koi hai na koi tha.. zindagi mein tumhare 'sivaaa'... tum dena saath mera..." .. O hum navaa.. :)

Love the song!

Raam Pyari said...

hey sayesha..I dont leave comments here often but i visit bherry bherry regularly!!
just wanted to let u know that it IS ossum to have you bak!!!!!!!

keep njoing gurl!!!
ruchi

anongal said...

after all that heated drama last week, you're back! ah, what a drama queen :P

neway, glad u're back :)

Sayesha said...

#Vikram,
Hahaha! Arre yaar that email was hilarious! My first memory of you, paagal insaan! :)

Yeah, am back. Let's spring the chatur chaar back into action again! :)

#Harshi,
Arre yaar, no matter how many breaks I take, or how long each break is, tere liye toh I am always available over email :)

//many-many such memorable moments lie on the way Sash. It's unfolding already...! :-)

Only remember the good stuff, is what I tell myself :)

#Reverie,
I love the song too! :)

#Moonwalker,
Thanks for commenting, dear! :) And thanks for the warm welcome.
ps: You a friend of Amit's? He says 'ossum' a lot! :P

#Anongal,
//after all that heated drama last week, you're back! ah, what a drama queen :P

You can call me drama queen or whatever other names you have in store, but too bad, this is my blog and I am back and there's nothing you can do about it! Muahaha! :D

viv said...

Welcome back!

You didn't mention WHA's translation of 'Bulla'? :P That was one of the funniest things that ever happened in the early days of your blog...

Mitthu said...

Good to see you back!

Arre mere song ke baare me abhi tak bataya hi nahi :)

Anonymous said...

You are such a f******* phoney

The Girl Who Sold The World said...

ANOTHER YEAR?!!! :O Naaah...I'm turning 18 in 3 months...then, Sayeshaz will HAVE to serve me whatever I want...muahahaha.

Macho Girl said...

welcome back! Felt really nice to see a new post at sayeshaz :) got a very hyper message from clueless abt the post in the middle of the night!! Bring on the OJ!!!! *hic*

Sayesha said...

#Viv,
Thanks, yaar! :)
Hey, the bulla translation was on Virdi's blog, not mine. But I agree, it was the funniest thing I had ever read on anyone's blog! :D

#Mitthu,
Arre reply nahin padha mera? I want the song yaar, bhej na! :)

#The Girl,
Arre birthday coming up? Theek hai theek hai, hum vichaar karenge. Kya drink chahiye bachi ko? :P

pandora said...

//HAAN!

:(((((
*neha burst into tears*...
i won't apologize though \:D/

PS:1st march se xams...milte hain break(me) ke baad... :D

Kais said...

Welcome back!!

Yahhh I haven't started that blog yet. You see, if you put your innermost thoughts online, people can enjoy reading them over a warm cup of coffee ... but if I put mine online, I would probably get arrested!! :O :P

Cheers
Kais

well wisher said...

Hey welcome back...

close ur eyes & imagine he most wonderful bouquet u've ever seen......[did u?]...well, that's ur welcome back gift.

now here's the note it bears:

"Of all the flowers that bloomed today these are the lucky few who get to spend the rest of their lives with you"

keep writing

Fao San said...

moshi! moshi! m back from kyoto, okiyo #348...none of ye need to bother with that one...*picking teeth* no mizuage's left there.

there was a blog war at sasha's n i wasn't invited??!! if the events at the okiyo hadn't put me in such good mood, i wudda gone on a roaring rampage of revenge...but the endorphins are still in circulation. so peace be.

n wherez aslam bhai? i want him back. nothing personal, sasha. i like that fella's cheek. hez witty, hez articulate, hez mine! i called first! hah! beat ya, hobbit!

@ aslam: how u doing?

Anil said...

I stopped reading the comments long ago because there were too many of them, but I had your blog in my rss reader so that I would never miss any of your posts. I don't know what incident happened on the comments pages, but don't let anything like that make you take a break from blogging. I read your blog because I like the way you think, and the way you put down those thoughts. Comments jaaye bhaad mein :-))))

Sayesha said...

#Pandora,
Alle alle Neha meri baby, tu kaiku ro rahi hai? I should be the one crying, tuney Monaco biscuit ki yaad dila di :(

All the best for the exams!

Sharmana chhod daal
Exams ko phod daal!


:D

#Kais,

Thanks, yaar! :)

//You see, if you put your innermost thoughts online, people can enjoy reading them over a warm cup of coffee

Doesn't happen all the time, as you witnessed recently :)

//but if I put mine online, I would probably get arrested!!

Ok now you've got me really curious! You GOTTA start that blog! :D

#Well wisher,
Wow, I almost got goose-bumpy there reading your message. Thanks yaar, it's very thoughtful of you :)

ps: I hope the flowers are pink gerberas? :)

#Fao San,
Welcome back! The war's over, babe (and don't you dare start another one!) :D

//n wherez aslam bhai? i want him back.

I want him back here too. But you can have him :) You and he would be perrrrfect together :)

lil _kath said...

Hugsss..Miss Kawaii^_^ welcome back...so my coffee and Sayesha's blog in the morning starts again!la lala la what a nice morning uh la lala!

cheers,
-kathy-

Sayesha said...

#Anil,
//Comments jaaye bhaad mein :-))))

Wah wah, kya baat bol dala! :)

ps: Arre sometimes you should read comments too, today's comment space had Viv and I remembering your Bulla translation! Remember that? HAHAHAHA! :D

ps: And I may just add that it's really nice to see you back here? Feels just like the old days :)

#Kathy,
Yes baby, I am back! Hugs to you too :)

well wisher said...

u bet they r pink gerberas....coz remember its the best bouquet U can imagine!:-)

its a diff matter that the only flower i kno to make using the keyboard is this:

@-{--

Rays Of Sun said...

Wierd Hair Anil!
Sayesha told me I laugh exactly the way like you do.Khi khi khi:D

Hobbit said...

//i want him back. nothing personal, sasha. i like that fella's cheek//

ahem..which "cheek" you talking about??? AM BACK children!!! muhahahaha!!

n Sasha...welcome back..we missed ya!!! :)) sorry! couldnt help that one Fao San..you can spank me for being mean to her!! will ya? *flutters lashes enticingly*

Shekhar said...

Just got a small break between classes, so can't read your entire post. But will be back later in the day. For the time being, this sums up my reaction:

OYE BALLE BALLE !!!! :D

Hobbit said...

btw, this is to whoever wrote that cloyingly sweet 'remember the times' epic to entice sasha back...

I dont get an honorary mention??? i work and work and work at this job...to be depraved, despicable and funny in a manner that doesnt appeal to ye sasha lovers and i dont get an honorary mention??? Woe is Me!!! :(

Ravi said...

Whoa I missed all the action.

Its very good that you've rebooted, refreshed, realigned your priorities. I'm happy for you. We do need these "rebranding" exercises from time to time.

Fao San said...

hobbit..tut! tut!..you waste your breath with that question on cheeks. lay offs from sasha's don't agree with you.

n you worked on being depraved n despicable? oh cahmaun, you modest thing, you!

American Pi said...

Sayesha,you have seen that shirt! It is NOT gay!!! :P

I will wear it every day when I meet you during the weekends this summer!

Anonymous said...

Kya post hai bidu !
Bahut dinon baad padha tumhara blog par fir se mazaa aa gaya :)

Btw, how do you find time to reply to all comments, eh?

Cheers!
-- Yash

Sayesha said...

#Well wisher,

Thanks. That does look like a pink gerbera. Well, almost! ;)

#ROS,
Haan, tum dono ki hansi bhi milti hai. Arre wah! Soul mates? :D

#Hobbit,
Errr... welcome back? :/

#Shekhar,
Balle balle back to ya, buddy! :)

#Hobbit,
//this is to whoever wrote that cloyingly sweet 'remember the times' epic to entice sasha back

Sasha wrote the cloyingly sweet epic herself.

#Ravi,
Arre welcome back! Bahut din ho gaye! Yeah, booting, rebooting sab ho gaya, I feel charged and happy :)

#American Pie,
Okay baba it's not gay! Khush? :D

//I will wear it every day when I meet you during the weekends this summer!

WHAT???!!! Same shirt every day???!!! :O

Errr... I have reports to finish up you see.. hehehe... I can't meet you man... hehehe... sorry yaar! :P

#Yash,
Wow you've been away for the loooongest time man! How have you been?? :)

//Btw, how do you find time to reply to all comments, eh?

I don't anymore! ;)

Hobbit said...

/Sasha wrote the cloyingly sweet epic herself.//

*sigh* you have robbed the cheek from my comments...can't even think of something to annoy u with...

there no more purpose to my life! Is this a dagger i spy before mine own eyes!!!

Sayesha said...

#MachoGirl,

Sheesh I missed your comment! How did that happen? It's not even there in my gmail! I just saw it here! :O

Darn.

Anyways, sorry, and thanks for the welcome back! :) I can imagine Clueless' hyper message! :P

justme said...

m:-)

Reghu said...

ok, here's my 2c worth... I totally agree with viv wen he said u were ending up like a forum administrator...

that was a reason y I more or less refrain from commenting... cos firstly, I see a 100 faces I have never met... 200 discussions I never get head or tail of :P well, I mite know them if I read ur comments regularly... but waddaheck, its a vicious cycle, I dont wanna sift thru all of it all the time... ;)

hence i stick to just ur posts, and no looking or leaving comments ;) which was y it was a shock for me to see ur sabbatical notice ;)

Anyways, I stick to wat I told u always... ;) Pls NEVER stop blogging :D

~Reghu.

oxymoron said...

sayeshaji, good to hear that u took a break from taking a break from blogging!
all the visitors to ur madhushaala will be relieved!
u scared the hell outta lot of the visitors!
//Remember the days of trying to guess which one of your juniors Oxymoron was, and finally giving up?
hahaaa - and the mystery remains... hooo ha haa haaa!

PS: don't the gives a crocodile's a*** to negative comments!
longs the live the sayeshaz!
eggggggggjactly!

Aslam said...

"So Aslambhai, Negative kid, don't give yourself too much credit that I took a break because of you. It takes much more than two guys who don't even know her, to break the mighty Sayesha :)"

Thank god Ms.Unbreakable is back. I was actually starting to think I had driven away the people's mighty heroine. Their Rani of Blogsi. :-)

See that smiley after my post. That means I am not being spiteful or venomous. :-)

Good post, BTW. I repeat for the nth time though, that I did not ask you to change. I just penned down my thoughts on your thoughts. That is all.You might see some similar ramblings from me if I happen to disagree with your future blog entries.

"I want to say "Mujhse dosti karoge, Aslambhai?"

Hum dushman kab the janeman?

Asylum :-)

PS- Fao San, are you sure you want to come over to the dark side and get acquainted with this anti-hero? :-)

Raj said...

I just read your last post and this one today. I dont know what happened but am glad to see u back in full form :)

Expect long comments from me again :)

fao said...

dark side...anti hero...i've never wanted you more! n just in time too...all the sunshine and saccharine sweetness was beginning to gnaw into my soul! summin wicked this way comes...*a dog howls in the distance..*

Sayesha said...

#Justme,
Wow, lagta hai mehfil ke saare puraane diljale waapas aa rahe hain aaj! I'm seeing you here after ages! :)

#Reghu,
Haan yaar, the moment he said it, I knew he was right!
ps: Sometimes I used to feel that you'd abandoned my blog, and that used to scare me a bit (you know what you mean to this blog) but now that I know you're around, I know all's good :)

#Oxys,
Yes, the Sayeshaz is the backs! :P
Good points about the crocodile's asses... I agrees! :)

#Aslam,
Wow, look who's here! :)

//I was actually starting to think I had driven away the people's mighty heroine.

Hahaha! Don't flatter yourself too much sweetheart. You don't have the power to 'drive me away from my own blog'. Like I mentioned, I had been lost in thoughts and your comment and my (and others') subsequent reaction to it kinda added on to my thoughts.

//I just penned down my thoughts on your thoughts. That is all.You might see some similar ramblings from me if I happen to disagree with your future blog entries.

Aslam, if you'd been with this blog since the beginning, you'd know that I have no problems with pple disagreeing with my posts. I only have problems when people are rude, mean and insensitive, or say things that are of no use to anyone. And as you admitted, the tone of your comment was rude and insensitive. Like ROS says, the same thing can be said in many ways, depends on which one you pick.

//Hum dushman kab the janeman?

Chalo, yeh faisla bhi ho gaya :)

//Fao San, are you sure you want to come over to the dark side and get acquainted with this anti-hero?

What?! You're going over to Fao San's? What bad timing man. Just when I was beginning to like you...

Khair... ja Aslam ja... Sash degi muhabbat ki qurbaani teri khatir! :)

#Raj,
Oye mera yaar Raj bhi waapas aa gaya! This reunion party rocks! :)

Fao said...

no, no, sasha...he isn't coming over to my dojo...hez inviting me over to his moor. n m SO going! i cot myself an anti-hero! what were the odds of that happening on this blog?

aslam...you da dude!

Shekhar said...

Oye Sayesha !! Ok, officially: WELCOME BACK. :D

Hmm, I too had thought that you might take a little longer to get things into your head, but I guess you're so much like me; where ideas just fall into the correct places when everything was seeming so incoherent a moment ago.

Enough of drame-baazi, get back to blogging, fultoo. Enjoy !!

And yes, the BALLE BALLE continues...

Ashish Gupta said...

no not quite a long time for me. Just that these days I dont check your blog everyday- only once in 2 days ;-)

but Saz ur TRPs are still high :)

Deeps said...

Hmm here I didn't even miss you and there you are back. Gal, you are besotted with blogging :-D.

Keep up the spirits :).

Suds said...

Hey Sayesha, I knew u cannot live without blogging for a long time. heheh. I even bet with swati on this heheheh..:) Enjoy Welcome back.

justme said...

@Sayesha:

Kya karo.. kaam ke siwa waqt hi nahin raha.. nayee duniya.. naye log.. nayee uljhanee...and myworld4u has become dormant.. some day i ll be back @ full throttle.. keep blogging.. one of the best places i know in this blog world is Sayesha's world :-)

Anil said...

@Sayesha,
It's funny to see that someone remembers that translation.. thanks Viv... maybe we can all laugh about this twenty years down the lane... I will be a dirty old man, and sayesha will be delivering her 7th kid... rest of you, I don't know... but do cheer for Sayesha..

oh boy, I need to escape now..

@Ros,
"Sayesha told me I laugh exactly the way like you do.Khi khi khi:D"
If you have the misfortune of actually listening to me in person, you'll go nuts.. I really laugh for no reason at all, and one particular friend of mine is pretty close to stabbing me the next time I laugh insanely :-)))

Raam Pyari said...

//ps: You a friend of Amit's? He says 'ossum' a lot! :P

YUSS!!!!
hehe..i think i hav piked 2 things from him :
1. CRack macha doh!( as in like go crack ur examz types.)

2.OSSUM!!!
Yeh dono, me thinkz IIM-A mein boht use hota hai:D

u are rite !!!hhmmmm.... Sharp sayesha!!!
ruchi.

Chints said...

hello???

i never challanged you to find your address to send you flowers and kitkat?

I asked you about your address. Since you never bothered to answer, i had given up on that.

I asked for your address cause you had demanded kitkat and bunch of pink gerberas as an apology in fun.

and I was serious on sending the stuff cause i enjoy surprising my friends and make them happy.

You remember the way I did with virdi by surprising him on his bday?

Sayesha said...

#Shekhar,
Thanks yaar! Am back to blogging, fully faltoo! :D

//I guess you're so much like me; where ideas just fall into the correct places when everything was seeming so incoherent a moment ago.

Right-o! :)

#Ashish,
Thanks yaar! Pata toh chala you're here! :)

#Deeps,
Thanks! :)
And replying to your earlier query about why I said "what we bloggers go thru" I did not mean that blogging is a torture. The "going thru" part was about the mean comments that we have to handle. Anyway, perhaps you won't understand. Because you don't allow anonymous comments on your blog.

Thanks for the welcome back! :)

#Suds,
Hahahaha! You know me too well, eh? So much did poor Swati Bhabhi have to pay you?? Aadha mera?? :D

#Justme,
Hang in there, yaar! Everything will fall into place soon! :)

#Anil,
Good things stay in the memory yaar! :)

7th kid???????? :O :O :O

#Moonwalker,
Hehehe! :P Sharp Sayesha is ossum, eh? ;)

#Chints,

//I asked you about your address. Since you never bothered to answer, i had given up on that.

Oye! Le padh, tere blog se copy-paste kiya hai.

Chints said...
//ps: chocolates and flowers are on ur way, just trying to figure out the address :)


On ur way?? Kithhe hain mere flowers and chocs???? Kithhe??? Muahahaha! :D

ritzkini said...

:)
zzzz.....thanks...i was kinda missing my naps...
:)))
good to have you back...
:)

Chints said...

There is a phunny word called 'assume' in angrezi. means making 'ass' of 'u' and 'me'. You assumed it as a challange whereas in my last comment i asked you about your address very politely.


kehte hai ki kutta palo, gadha palo, billi palo, jyada daring ho to saanp palo, aur to aur haathi bhi pal lo

par galatfehemi kabhi na palo, bahut garbar cheez hai. samajhe meri bachhi?

ashish said...

I AM OMINIPRESENT :P

Sayesha said...

#Kini,
Sheesh! Sayesha ka blog nahin, Kini ka bistar ho gaya, hai na? Hmmmph! :/.

#Chints,
There's a word called 'figure out' in your comment. Which means you should not need help from me! ;)

#Ashish,
Yes yes you're omnipresent. You're also very very drunk, my friend :)

raven said...

sahi hai be... last post ne to mujhe dara hi diya!! was catching up on my backlog of posts-to-read after a long time so major sa shock laga.

waise sochne ka nahin... tu too good hai... and yeh anonymous dubara tang karein to apun ko bolne ka... yeh dubai ke bhai log mein contacts hain apun ke... sabko uthwa denge

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