Monday, June 23, 2008

Closure

You forgot but couldn't forgive.

I forgave but couldn't forget.

And that, my friend, is why we can't shouldn't be friends anymore.



24 comments:

raghu said...

aye aye captain!

dont make friends only.. no need to forget or forgive.. makes it all lot less complicated :D

Sanchit said...

hoodibaba... ki holo.... tumi bhalo?

Sanchit said...

one of my old friend used to say that things go bad when u expect..

expect accept except.. kitna complicated hai sab kuch... take care

Clueless said...

Friendship problems are always such a downer. :(

Urv said...

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Woh apun jaadu ki jhappi dene ka try kar raha hai...

Urv said...

Gosh! My head and leg got a bit misaligned there coz of the spaces...

sumgum said...

Don't get lost in the Forgive / Forget business....its juss too over-rated.

SK said...

Hey
U know, I thought I was the only one losing friends. ;--(
I do feel better knowing other people, like you Sayesha the great, amazing with friends, too can have sour relationships. ;--)

Stone said...

Like they say everything comes with an 'expiry date'....

Take care!

~vagabond~ said...

Oh my gosh...get out of my head, woman! That expresses exactly how I feel about a certain "frienemy" when mutual friends keep trying to get us to "forgive and forget". It's like you peeked into my head, saw my thoughts and put words to them. 8| I dont know...maybe some friendships just arent meant to be...and maybe not being friends, atleast for right now isnt such a bad idea. Some friendships need a lot of space. And who knows, perhaps someday it wont sting and the bitterness will be gone. Erm. Or maybe not.

Stupidosaur said...

@urv
hmm but now its become a machine gun.

jhappi bana gun!

fitting for this post.

Sayesha bhai,
why is the 'princess of hearts' talking like 'queen of hearts' of Alice in Wonderland?

'growing up process'?

Sayesha said...

#Raghu,
Hahahah! What a simple solution eh? :P

#Sanchit,
Aami khoob bhalo don't worry! Just needed to stop thinking about something which had been in my head for a few months now... now I think I'm finally done. It's all about closure. :)

#Clueless,
You bet!

#Urv,
Hahahahahah! I thought you're giving me a paracetamol and a glass of water! Hahahahahahaha! :D :D :D :D

#sumgum,
Actually I don't think it is overrated you know... the two F-words go together... I have come to realise that every time friends fight, unless BOTH forgive AND forget, it will come back and get them. It's better to be practical and not struggle so much -- if you can't forget and forgive, you can't. That's it.

#SK,
Sheesh! I'm as normal as anyone yaar... stuff happens to the Bhai too man! :)

#Stone,
Thanks yaar! :)

#~vagabond~,
Precisely. I have come to realise that sometimes it's as simple as letting go. If you can't get something out of your mind, there is no point struggling to keep the friendship alive, it's seriously not worth the mental torture. Hope you feel better soon too!

#Stupidosaur,
Hahahaha! Jhappi bana gun it seems! :D

//why is the 'princess of hearts' talking like 'queen of hearts' of Alice in Wonderland?

Princess of hearts was sad re... but now she's not. Blog therapy eh? :)

Shweta said...

I kno this is terribly out of place, and you;re going to kick me out of the bar, but really, I cant help it.

Gold!

Hope everything turns out ok.

Sayesha said...

#Shweta,
Hahahahha! Kaise kaise bewde aate hain yahan! Sheesh! :P
PS: Everything is okay. :)

Urv said...

~sayesha
Haha :D Paracetamol :D

And I claim Silvaaarr. Wonder if so many commnets have come in before someone claiming in recent posts...

~stupidosaur
Main Bhai ko gun thodi dega. Bhai ka weapon to kuch aur hi hai na.

Maryum said...

why do i always get bronze..?
why cant we have diamond or platinum before gold?
and as bhai is okay now(as she assures in the earlier messages)...i m going to claim DIAMOND!!!its all about shadi ki jewelery i tell u!!
luv
tc
mary
ps. hope u really are okay...if not pick ur rolled newspaper and beat someone... and u will feel so good..

Sanchit said...

#maryum sayesha

roll newspaper... and....
thwack....

t said...

urv said:
"Wonder if so many commnets have come in before someone claiming in recent posts..."

Thats because Sayesha's bewdas reading the blog care more about Sayesha when she's feeling a little blue than claiming medals :D Hai na?

Sayesha, let it go. I'm sure you've done that by now, but I'd like to add, some people are not worth it :)

Sayesha said...

#Urv,
Muahaha! Sahi bola! Bhai has her own daily weapon! :P

#Maryum,
Chal hero heeralal tera! Khush? :P

//if not pick ur rolled newspaper and beat someone... and u will feel so good..

Aaja? :D

#Sanchit,
Arre you're also a good candidate! :P

#t,
//Thats because Sayesha's bewdas reading the blog care more about Sayesha when she's feeling a little blue than claiming medals :D Hai na?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! :D
Oh wait, you were serious? :P

//Sayesha, let it go. I'm sure you've done that by now, but I'd like to add, some people are not worth it :)

Yup... wise words. :)

raghu said...

arrey really works.. hate humans.. arrgh!

Neha Malhotra said...

All people give you good memories and teach you something. Cherish them! :)

rt said...

wise words Sayesha,

But in the end it doesnt really matter..... whether u had a fight or not! what u will remember is the good times u had...

kaunquest said...

yes..that sting! ..i know what u mean..you start living in different worlds, but its not easy to let go of those few good memories!

sumgum said...

When I say its over-rated....i mean to say is....it is imp but not tat imp...how many times does this forget-forgive business affect ur life directly??....i dont catch myself thinking abt it for yrs together....till one fine day it comes bak and goes away as quickly as it can.....:)....its juss funny tat once in my life the ppl and things tat were everything...are nothing anymore....well....not really nothing....but maybe juss 1 or 5 % imp anymore....:(