tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post114164576002648693..comments2024-03-29T04:01:44.886+08:00Comments on Sayesha on the rocks: My work here is done.Sayeshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05431440367242063051noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1171297785662138942007-02-13T00:29:00.000+08:002007-02-13T00:29:00.000+08:00[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-5...[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-55.htm]компрессор зиф 55[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-55.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-55v.htm]компрессор зиф 55в[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-55v.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/peredvizhnoi-kompressor-zif.htm]передвижной компрессор зиф[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/peredvizhnoi-kompressor-zif.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-zapasnye-chasti.htm]компрессор зиф запасные части[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-zapasnye-chasti.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/privod-kompressora-zif-pv-5.htm]привод компрессора зиф пв 5[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/privod-kompressora-zif-pv-5.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-shv5.htm]компрессор зиф шв5[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/kompressor-zif-shv5.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/peredvizhnoi-kompressor-zif-55v.htm]передвижной компрессор зиф 55в[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/peredvizhnoi-kompressor-zif-55v.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/harakteristiki-kompressorov-zif.htm]характеристики компрессоров зиф[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/harakteristiki-kompressorov-zif.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/arenda-kompressorov.htm]аренда компрессоров[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/arenda-kompressorov.htm <BR/>[url=http://compressor.beeblog.ru/arenda-kompressora-peterburg.htm]аренда компрессора петербург[/url] <BR/>http://compressor.beeblog.ru/arenda-kompressora-peterburg.htmAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141991438119835612006-03-10T19:50:00.000+08:002006-03-10T19:50:00.000+08:00Hey sayesha, heres hoping that 'your decision' doe...Hey sayesha, heres hoping that 'your decision' does prove out to be the 'right decision' :)Kusum Rohrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03104134916421911604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141853720869839182006-03-09T05:35:00.000+08:002006-03-09T05:35:00.000+08:00Hey Sayesha, my late two-penny bit.I don't wanna s...Hey Sayesha, my late two-penny bit.<BR/><BR/>I don't wanna say anything about your decision at all, whether it is right or wrong. All I wanted to tell you was that when I read through this post, I <I>actually</I> stood up from my chair and gave you a small applause for your courage, lady. I firmly believe you deserved it.<BR/><BR/>//In cases like these, there really is no 'right decision' or 'wrong decision'. There's only 'your decision'.<BR/><BR/>Very true.Shekharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10389180819626234425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141840953632417782006-03-09T02:02:00.000+08:002006-03-09T02:02:00.000+08:00I totally understand what u feel..I almost felt li...I totally understand what u feel..I almost felt like Im reading my mind when i read this post..coz this is exactly wat Im goin thru...:)..kudos dear..Jinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04114322815517985585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141772046641566972006-03-08T06:54:00.000+08:002006-03-08T06:54:00.000+08:00#Viv,Aye aye, captain! :)#Suds,Yup that's the plan...#Viv,<BR/>Aye aye, captain! :)<BR/><BR/>#Suds,<BR/>Yup that's the plan. Thanks! :)<BR/><BR/>#Ravi,<BR/>Actually in my case, the choices are really far apart, which is why the decision was even tougher :)<BR/><BR/>#Soumya,<BR/>Thanks! :)<BR/><BR/>#Raj,<BR/>My thoughts exactly :)<BR/><BR/>#Vinesh,<BR/>//next morning if u wake up wanting to go to office<BR/><BR/>Haha! I have to wake up at 6 every day! What do you think? ;)<BR/><BR/>#Moonwalker,<BR/>Thanks! :)<BR/><BR/>#Ram,<BR/>Welcome to Sayeshaz! I was gonna say 'Hi, Ram!' when I realised it doesn't quite sound right. :D<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your wise words and wishes :)<BR/><BR/>#Rachana,<BR/>Well said, girl! It's the fight that matters! :)<BR/><BR/>#Chints,<BR/>Thanks! :)<BR/><BR/>#Rohit,<BR/>Thanks! :)<BR/>ps: Naya photu-shotu? ;)Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141743978693086712006-03-07T23:06:00.000+08:002006-03-07T23:06:00.000+08:00The GirlWe've talked about this, right! I did the ...<B>The Girl</B><BR/>We've talked about this, right! I did the same.. It feels great!<BR/><BR/>Sayesha.. Bravo! I'm sure you're all set. All the best! Hit it! <BR/>:)Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09469564318863746009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141716920087174772006-03-07T15:35:00.000+08:002006-03-07T15:35:00.000+08:00Sayesha the blogger is a tough fighter..recently s...Sayesha the blogger is a tough fighter..recently she defeated Sayesha the person and was back on blogs..then she leveled a attitude fight with some one..Win or lose, to give a fight is important.. Best luck!!rachanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14183659688400073503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141714157388215672006-03-07T14:49:00.000+08:002006-03-07T14:49:00.000+08:00Hey,I came across your post doing some random skip...Hey,<BR/><BR/>I came across your post doing some random skipping [six degrees of separation is all that is between us anyway], and just wanted to send you my wishes for a bright and fulfilling career - wherever you might be.<BR/><BR/>As you say, there is no right or wrong decision. There never is, otherwise there would be nothing to think about. At the end of the day, its how you feel. If you had to think about whether you should accept an offer with a bigger company that is paying you more and providing you with every other benefit, then that tells me you had issues with it anyway. So its all good.<BR/><BR/>Instead of wishing you a "stable" and "rewarding" career in your "teeny small boat", or wishing that your boat overtakes the big steamer - I wish that you face more such choices in the future, with the caveat that you have the strength and the confidence to come out tops every time!<BR/><BR/>Too senti, but its late and I was reading some old poems on the web and complaining about my lonely life! Sorry!<BR/><BR/>Take care,<BR/>RamRamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04979045896481223163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141714036884188862006-03-07T14:47:00.000+08:002006-03-07T14:47:00.000+08:00hmm...well , a) though it is not about morals for ...hmm...well , <BR/>a) though it is not about morals for u the fact remains that u did not just abandon ur team.<BR/>:)<BR/>b)You never know how things will turn out.Something that looks ultra gud rigt now mite seem usless later.Hence you really dun know wat u have lost out on by letting go of that offer.In retrospect this cud be the wisest carrer decision.:)<BR/><BR/>c) you have made an important decision, hence you need positivez coming your way..<BR/>therfore:<BR/>BEST OF LUCK!<BR/>You will do good!Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08566262501480000154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141710550904313032006-03-07T13:49:00.000+08:002006-03-07T13:49:00.000+08:00end of the day.. bottom line..next morning if u wa...end of the day.. bottom line..<BR/>next morning if u wake up wanting to go to office...<BR/>then..<BR/>just go..Vineshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13578673170981787471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141707803889193232006-03-07T13:03:00.000+08:002006-03-07T13:03:00.000+08:00I never repent doing anything cos I believe that o...I never repent doing anything cos I believe that one does what seems best at that moment. It may turn out to be wrong later but so what.\n\nSo whatever decision you have made is the right decision.\n\nAnyhow, good luck. I hope things go well!! :)Rajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18263797303662303105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141707385840863972006-03-07T12:56:00.000+08:002006-03-07T12:56:00.000+08:00//Lesson learnt - some things are best left to you...//Lesson learnt - some things are best left to yourself or to someone who's really trustworthy.<BR/><BR/>Very valuable lesson indeed...Most times, people don't understand what you're really going through...<BR/><BR/>//In cases like these, there really is no 'right decision' or 'wrong decision'. There's only 'your decision'.<BR/><BR/>Kudos to that!! Exactly!! Right or wrong, you made the decision and you'll stand by it no matter what the outcome may be...Yes, the relief after making the decision one way or the other is such a burden off the heart...<BR/><BR/>Quit fretting, continue your job as you've always done and time will give you the answer...<BR/><BR/>Go girl, put the "pub" right back into "publishing"...Good luck!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141705586512418502006-03-07T12:26:00.000+08:002006-03-07T12:26:00.000+08:00In all sincerity, I don't know whether it was the ...In all sincerity, I don't know whether it was the most benefecial decision in monetary &/or market value terms or not. But as long as you don't regret it, as long as your heart stands by your decision, as long as you want to put the 'pub' back in publishing, it damn well is the right decision.<BR/><BR/>I realise that we give way too much importance to decision making. If the decision is not easy or forthcoming, the choices are anyway not far apart. It means risk or benefit by choosing any one path will not be too high. So why worry?<BR/><BR/>All the best!!Ravihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03020790518539911265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141705457385266092006-03-07T12:24:00.000+08:002006-03-07T12:24:00.000+08:00Sayesha, I agree. Also as I said I always believe ...Sayesha, I agree. Also as I said I always believe every decision I take is right. Because in those circumstances that was the best I could do...:) so don't worry and take it easy...:)Sudshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12249287471368833406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141700006230722052006-03-07T10:53:00.000+08:002006-03-07T10:53:00.000+08:00As they say, there's no point considering 'what-if...As they say, there's no point considering 'what-if's in life. You can only take one route. You've chosen yours and you're happy with that. That's it then :) Tomorrow, you'll encounter another fork in the road ahead... The fun is in the journey and not the destination (definitely not if you consider end-of-life as the destination :P)<BR/><BR/>Of course, don't forget the lessons you learnt along the way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141685347844808342006-03-07T06:49:00.000+08:002006-03-07T06:49:00.000+08:00#Tinku,Kufi?? YIKES. I dun sell no yucky things in...#Tinku,<BR/>Kufi?? YIKES. I dun sell no yucky things in de bar! :/ Theek hai theek hai, yeh le tera drink aur chup chaap se ek koney mein baith ja. :D<BR/><BR/>#Kais,<BR/>Thanks yaar! :)<BR/><BR/>//Don't worry about big white ship not offering you a job in the future, out of spite because you 'rejected' them once long ago. Wimmen might pull that kind of stunt, not logcal companies<BR/><BR/>Hahahaha! Dunno about the wimmen part, but I do hope you're right about the ship part! :P<BR/><BR/>#Jon,<BR/>Hey, welcome to Sayeshaz. Thanks for your comment. :) And yeah, I've read the book :)<BR/><BR/>#Jade,<BR/>Right you are! Thanks! :)<BR/><BR/>#Harshi,<BR/>//People who pry things out of us, pretend to be oh-so-concerned and use that as fodder for gossip with others. <BR/><BR/>Gosh, that was SO what it was! :O<BR/><BR/>Yeah, it was a very tough decision, and there was no way to be sure that it was the best thing for me, lekin I had to do it. That seemed more 'right' than the other option. Ab dekhte hain! :)<BR/><BR/>#Thanu,<BR/>It's not in my hands to bring it afloat, but I will do whatever I can to help the guy at the wheel :)<BR/><BR/>#Harshi,<BR/>This Arien totally agrees with the Libran! ;)<BR/><BR/>#AJ,<BR/>//I wont say you made a right decision or a wrong one! But I would say the best judge lies within.. Do what your heart wants you to do. Real satisfaction is in that only.<BR/><BR/>My thoughts exactly. Thanks, yaar! :)<BR/><BR/>#Suds,<BR/>I'm so happy it worked out for you. Whatever decision we make, as long as we learn something from it, I guess there is real right or wrong, hai na? :)<BR/><BR/>#Yash,<BR/>//You go with what you feel is right given your limited resources and then work hard to make your decision turn out right.<BR/><BR/>Yes, I agree. And you also leave the option open of turning around without regretting what you'd decided first. :)<BR/><BR/>//just beware of the "escalation of commitment" syndrome<BR/><BR/>Yup yup, that's what's freaking me out. In this day and age, it's not quite the thing to do :)<BR/><BR/>#The Girl,<BR/>Arre phir se waapas? Balti bhar bhar ke pee rahi hai aaj?? :O <BR/><BR/>ps: Good that you're proud of your decision! :) Ab ja padhai kar! :D<BR/><BR/>#Vikram,<BR/>//For me it's simple - deal or no deal.<BR/><BR/>Arre yaar, wish it was that simple re... teri Sash pagal ho gayi soch soch ke! :(<BR/><BR/>//don't decide on something thinking you shouldn't regret it.<BR/><BR/>Like I said before, I rarely regret things I do. There's just no point, even if this decision was 'the wrong one' in that sense, I will move on without regretting making this decision. Because I know every decision I take will teach me something, so there is nothing to regret really. :)Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141680470423246782006-03-07T05:27:00.000+08:002006-03-07T05:27:00.000+08:00Yeah, that's what I went through a few months ago!...Yeah, that's what I went through a few months ago! Not regarding job, obviously...but deciding whether I should try for engineering or not...and I chose not to! YAY! <BR/><I>It's during times like these when you discover people who pretend to be your friends but are actually trying to play your mind.</I><BR/>EXACTLY! That's how I felt like at that time! <BR/>AND, till now, I think my decision was right. :D<BR/>I guess perhaps you'll soon come to know if yours was right or wrong...though, maybe it was all fine since you actually <I>want</I> to work in this company, right? What's the point in doing something which you won't enjoy? That's one of the main reason behind my decision too. =)<BR/>Enough of serious talk...my already exhausted brains will perhaps die. And yeah, me back here again because there was free time.<BR/>Now, serve me today's special "above 18 only" drink at Sayeshaz. :P Muahahahaha.The Girl Who Sold The Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06961450250749213466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141679634474383642006-03-07T05:13:00.000+08:002006-03-07T05:13:00.000+08:00Hey forgot to mention something else... just bewar...Hey forgot to mention something else... just beware of the "escalation of commitment" syndrome.<BR/><BR/>-- YashAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141679542953815372006-03-07T05:12:00.000+08:002006-03-07T05:12:00.000+08:00Hey Sayesha:Some thoughts...i'm writing them here ...Hey Sayesha:<BR/>Some thoughts...i'm writing them here cause its better than not saying anything :D<BR/> <BR/>In my limited opinion, most right or wrong strategies are emergent. You go with what you feel is right given your limited resources and then work hard to make your decision turn out right.<BR/><BR/>ATB!<BR/><BR/>-- YashAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141676037704215752006-03-07T04:13:00.000+08:002006-03-07T04:13:00.000+08:00Hey Sayesha, I have gone through exact same stuff ...Hey Sayesha, I have gone through exact same stuff long back. It was in year 2000. I had a offer from one of the biggest companies in Software IBM and my boss from my previous company was planing to start a company(www.e-emphasys.com). He asked me to join him and help him setup the whole operation in US. It was tough. But then I spoke to my very close friend N. She is just great. She told me one thing<BR/><BR/>"Decision is not which job u want to take, Deicision is whether u want to be small part of big entity or big part of small one. One job gives u an opportunity to learn, teach and grow with the small company. I am confident you will get a job if ur small company closes down also. So don't worry abt that." <BR/><BR/>I never regretted my decision. Maybe life would have been different. But life is what u make of it. So remember the decisions u make in given circumstances are always correct. So don't worry everything will be fine. Just work ur heart out. Change things that u don't like. When there is total confusion in ur company, look at it as an opportunity not as a disadvantage. Make it successful.:) <BR/><BR/>Enjoy.Sudshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12249287471368833406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141674945347801332006-03-07T03:55:00.000+08:002006-03-07T03:55:00.000+08:00Yaar there will always be people in favour of both...Yaar there will always be people in favour of both sides<BR/><BR/>I wont say you made a right decision or a wrong one! <BR/><BR/>But I would say the best judge lies within.. Do what your heart wants you to do. Real satisfaction is in that only.<BR/><BR/>Leave a job when you feel you are not growing there. Money and opportunities may come later also.<BR/><BR/>Life is after all a risk a big risk business at every moment :)<BR/>Those who play for win. Win it.Ajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15489290027248993972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141673842438595862006-03-07T03:37:00.000+08:002006-03-07T03:37:00.000+08:00And Sash, any decision you make will have its diff...And Sash, any decision you make will have its different colors n textures and ups n downs. A different set of challenges anywhere you go...<BR/><BR/>Ah, decision making time is Toughhh! :-) A libran like me knows that, hahaa :-) They say we are quite indecisive :-)). I start weighing all the pros n cons too, and totally tire myself out. But the path becomes so much clearer when it comes from the heart. I do believe in certain rights and wrongs, but that concept can sometimes put unnecessary pressure on us and stop us from being true to ourselves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141672394729997202006-03-07T03:13:00.000+08:002006-03-07T03:13:00.000+08:00Good luck with ur decision and hope that u bring t...Good luck with ur decision and hope that u bring the sinking ship afloatThanuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12384963844160030808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141672213179473632006-03-07T03:10:00.000+08:002006-03-07T03:10:00.000+08:00>>people who pretend to be your friends but are ac...>>people who pretend to be your friends but are actually trying to play your mind.<BR/><BR/>I am fearful of meeting such people. Have come across them. People who pry things out of us, pretend to be oh-so-concerned and use that as fodder for gossip with others. <BR/>But unless we take little risks, we will not know what people are really made of too.<BR/><BR/>And I agree somethings are better kept to ourselves. Can another person completely understand our struggle? I guess not. They can try but still...that divide will remain. What a friend can help with is perhaps, help us talk about it more, or give us options we might have missed thinking about...or just brainstorm with us. <BR/><BR/>Anyways, Sash, it sure must have been tough...going through that dilemma. I am glad that you arrived at a decision that you felt was right at this time. It's scary to think that opportunities might never come again, but I feel they are everywhere. Look, and you will see. Maybe you will come across an even better one. You are a talented, hardworking person getting great experience and believe me, there will be newer horizons waiting for you in the future Sash. <BR/><BR/>Take this as a challenge, and do your best. I see the passion in you. That matters a lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1141663779923796722006-03-07T00:49:00.000+08:002006-03-07T00:49:00.000+08:00good luck sayesha:) good that you followed ur hear...good luck sayesha:) good that you followed ur heart and no matter what decision u take ur talent will get u places:) as long as u believe in urself thr is nothing to worry:)<BR/>these decisions are really tough...taking advice is the most useless thing to do it all the more confuses you.. its just that u feel u have heard wht others have to say.. its ultimately ur decision and no matter wht anyone says u r gonna do wht u think is right:)Shobanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285734045252869252noreply@blogger.com