tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post112572000888945292..comments2024-03-27T15:42:44.641+08:00Comments on Sayesha on the rocks: It's not you, it's meSayeshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05431440367242063051noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1171510681403021222007-02-15T11:38:00.000+08:002007-02-15T11:38:00.000+08:00Best regards from NY! »Best regards from NY! <A HREF="http://www.buy-levitra-3.info/Free-levitra-cupon.html" REL="nofollow">»</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1131175514731879362005-11-05T15:25:00.000+08:002005-11-05T15:25:00.000+08:00#Vik H,//And most people are in love with the very...#Vik H,<BR/>//And most people are in love with the very concept of 'love'!!<BR/><BR/>I couldn't agree more!<BR/><BR/>#Me,<BR/>It's difficult for others to understand what the two people had and don't have. But as long as you know it in your heart , nothing else matters.Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1130242967644670952005-10-25T20:22:00.000+08:002005-10-25T20:22:00.000+08:00Just loved some of the lines in your blog..."But m...Just loved some of the lines in your blog...<BR/>"But maybe, just maybe, there was no 'bad person'. Maybe it was just two 'good persons' who realised they were not meant to be together.<BR/><BR/>The negativity associated with break-ups is what makes the topic taboo. Break-ups are not all bad. They are painful, yes, but they prepare us better for our lives ahead. And they help us make choices for our lives."<BR/><BR/>I wish everybody understands that....<BR/><BR/>#Nutty<BR/>About marriage.... its better to break-off and give little (or more) pain to everyone associated rather than just hooking on in a relationship for the sake of others and give pain to yourself for life long. Life moves on and with time everyone learns to live without the "missing person"....<BR/><BR/>The first thing i want to tell my parents is that "He is NOT a bad person, its just that we are not meant for each other..." Hope they will understand.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129578094283060752005-10-18T03:41:00.000+08:002005-10-18T03:41:00.000+08:00the problem with most people is that they're livin...the problem with most people is that they're living at a very superficial level! they don't understand the depth of true emotions but instead just want to be in love!...And most people are in love with the very concept of 'love'!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12036902571153623954noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129548584042702412005-10-17T19:29:00.000+08:002005-10-17T19:29:00.000+08:00#Siddhu,Yup, got it. Thanks :)#Nutty,It's there. :...#Siddhu,<BR/>Yup, got it. Thanks :)<BR/><BR/>#Nutty,<BR/>It's there. :)<BR/><BR/>#Rinku,<BR/>I don't think we can generalise that girls initiate the break-up... a break-up involves both, irrespective of who "initiates" it. I think the instances that you came across were very similar... but trust me, there's more :)<BR/><BR/>#Fao,<BR/>//tu nahin to aur sahi. aur nahin to koi aur sahi.<BR/>Good approach! ;)<BR/><BR/>#DOJ,<BR/>The 7 soulmates thing is just my own theory, don't go by it, I have too many theories man! :P<BR/><BR/>#Phoenix,<BR/>Looking forward to your post :)Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129536086520097832005-10-17T16:01:00.000+08:002005-10-17T16:01:00.000+08:00hey iw as just about to pot something exactly on t...hey iw as just about to pot something exactly on this...arbit reaons for breakups!<BR/>bu u are first!<BR/><BR/>good postPhoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14427880766691064056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129533980359958142005-10-17T15:26:00.000+08:002005-10-17T15:26:00.000+08:00I roughly meant the same, don't know why it sounds...I roughly meant the same, don't know why it sounds different. *befuddled look*<BR/><BR/>7 soulmates? Bless the thought, and bless you for saying it!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489950800574601779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129532242108579412005-10-17T14:57:00.000+08:002005-10-17T14:57:00.000+08:00tu nahin to aur sahi. aur nahin to koi aur sahi.i ...tu nahin to aur sahi. aur nahin to koi aur sahi.<BR/><BR/>i love biteme. i love parasite too. choices, choices.<BR/><BR/>don't tell the hobbit i was here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129460450151887332005-10-16T19:00:00.000+08:002005-10-16T19:00:00.000+08:00Nice, and extremely coherent post! No other commen...Nice, and extremely coherent post! No other comments :) - cannot make any other comments, if you get wha i mean.Siddhuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15766092746877344160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129438123541797312005-10-16T12:48:00.000+08:002005-10-16T12:48:00.000+08:00#Tarzan,Yeh dil ki baatein hai, tu nahin samjhega....#Tarzan,<BR/>Yeh dil ki baatein hai, tu nahin samjhega. Go back to your treetop. :)<BR/><BR/>#A Jane,<BR/>Time lagta hai yaar :) Not gumsum anymore... tho' it's mainly cos my assignment is killing me! :P<BR/><BR/>#Puneet,<BR/>Kamaal ke insaan ho. Taareef karte ho aur kehte ho 'I hope u dont mind me saying that'?? Haha! :P <BR/>ps: Looking forward to reading your post on the topic :)<BR/><BR/>#Humjoli,<BR/>You too? Ok post soon then, wanna read your views too :)<BR/>ps: Yes, I read the comments.<BR/><BR/>#Renegadefade,<BR/>I think you and Tarzan aka RItzkini are soulmates man! :D<BR/><BR/>#Anonymous,<BR/>Honoured that my blog helped in whatever small way it could. Take care girl, and anytime you wanna talk, just drop me a holler! :)<BR/><BR/>#Ravi,<BR/><BR/>//Did I ever mention before that you have the maturity I've rarely seen before?<BR/><BR/>Actually no. :)<BR/>Most of the time you (and Ashish!) make fun of me as if I were a 2-year-old! :@<BR/><BR/>//It is an artificial pressure applied by society to enforce commitment. I do not like that idea. <BR/><BR/>Well said, my friend.<BR/><BR/>#ROS,<BR/>Hehe... zindagi kahan kahan le jaati hai, nahin? :)<BR/><BR/>#Pradyot,<BR/>You summed up my post in three sentences. Wow! (Makes me wonder -- am I long-winded or what??)<BR/><BR/>#Animesh,<BR/>Welcome to Sayeshaz. And thanks for sharing the enlightening views. Amazing stuff. :)<BR/><BR/>#DOJ,<BR/><BR/>//So my hypothesis is life is just a string of relationships spent in the hope of finding your soultmate.<BR/><BR/>I'd echo that, except for the "spent in the hope of finding your soultmate" part. I'd like to fully live every relationship that exists in my life, without "searching for" or "hoping to find" my "soulmate". Like I said, I believe that each of us has seven soulmates, and there's no rule that says we have to meet any or all of them in our lifetime. :)Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129432418022286722005-10-16T11:13:00.000+08:002005-10-16T11:13:00.000+08:00True that!I always maintain that soulmates don't e...True that!<BR/><BR/>I always maintain that soulmates don't exist. So my hypothesis is life is just a string of relationships spent in the hope of finding your soultmate. But soulmates don't exist. Hence the circle of life continues. But its still fun nonetheless...God bless lovers everywhere, coz its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03489950800574601779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129425756461125722005-10-16T09:22:00.000+08:002005-10-16T09:22:00.000+08:00Nice article,Like the way you geekily use X and Y....Nice article,<BR/><BR/>Like the way you geekily use X and Y.<BR/><BR/>Some rants from my side too... have been thinking for some time as to why people get together in the first place if they have to break up?<BR/><BR/>It is known that girls and guys brains are wired differently, and if you come to think of it, it is very easy to _not_ like someone of the opposite sex judging by their expertize at skills that we hold so dear [e.g. I sometime feel angry at my female friends who cannot read maps at all!].<BR/><BR/>Yet, the hormones take over at the opportune moment. You start seeing the difference as "complementary" as opposed to "antagonistic". Somehow, the girl a guy is attracted to starts to look more like himself, and which guy would not want to date someone who is similar to him in some ways, yet complementary in others. And there is a reason for this - apparently guys secrete estrogen and girls secrete testosterone during courtship - nature's way of making sure people fall in love and procreate!<BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, the hormonal high does not last forever, and then it is the turn of the maturity of the individual to take over. I agree with the idea that if you constantly look for a better person, there is no end to this - it is like looking for a better PC.<BR/><BR/>All relationships are put to a test once the initial honeymoon phase is over [and many other times], some pass the test, some don't. That's life.<BR/><BR/>As far as "good" and "bad" people are concerned, I stick to the maxim of "hate the behavior, not the person".<BR/><BR/>Luv and Luck,<BR/>AnimeshAnimeshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08412663541603155070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129392015860426522005-10-16T00:00:00.000+08:002005-10-16T00:00:00.000+08:00#Sash,Tu to role model ban gayee hai:DI will check...#Sash,<BR/>Tu to role model ban gayee hai:D<BR/><BR/>I will check that post:)<BR/>ROSRays Of Sunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16779818434762639889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129387666543816132005-10-15T22:47:00.000+08:002005-10-15T22:47:00.000+08:00Did I ever mention before that you have the maturi...Did I ever mention before that you have the maturity I've rarely seen before?<BR/><BR/>A break up is a thing that has happenned. As friends, we rarely have any power of changing the outcome of a break up. So what is most important is that we make the breaking up parties feel comfortabe about the break up. Its important to divert their attention from the break up to other things in life. Anyway it is better that they broke up now than finding out later that they were not meant to be together.<BR/><BR/>#nuttysocrates<BR/>#viv<BR/>I think all the relations society gives name to in life are an effort to enforce commitment not just "marraige". But if you think about it, its not natural. It is an artificial pressure applied by society to enforce commitment. I do not like that idea. I believe any relation should have its own natural strenght to stay putRavihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03020790518539911265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129384295274967512005-10-15T21:51:00.000+08:002005-10-15T21:51:00.000+08:00Hey Sayesha,I have been a silent n a regular reade...Hey Sayesha,<BR/>I have been a silent n a regular reader of ur posts and this particular post couldn't have come at a better(?) time...right now, i myself am going thru a breakup of my relation of six yrs..yea,it did turn ugly and ended on a bitter note but now when i think abt it, am happier that this happened before we got married rather than go thru a divorce..maybe there are better things in store for me and maybe i was meant to go thru this..<BR/><BR/>And I must say ur blog rocks big time..keep up the good work, gal!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129382894741248242005-10-15T21:28:00.000+08:002005-10-15T21:28:00.000+08:00x,y , x,y ...itne equation to maine algebra mein b...x,y , x,y ...itne equation to maine algebra mein bhi nahin dekhe... <BR/>wait a minute.. wo algebra hota tha ya geometry??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129376563963695672005-10-15T19:42:00.000+08:002005-10-15T19:42:00.000+08:00hiii Sayesha...I hope u dont mind me saying that I...hiii Sayesha...<BR/><BR/>I hope u dont mind me saying that <BR/>I luv ur attitude...<BR/>(next to ur writing ;-)<BR/><BR/><EM> But maybe, just maybe, there was no 'bad person'. Maybe it was just two 'good persons' who realised they were not meant to be together </EM><BR/>this is sooo damn true...<BR/>sometimes there is no bad person but yes at times there is...<BR/><BR/><EM> When two people break up, their common friends have a tough time. </EM><BR/>So true... I can vouch for that...<BR/>Recently handled one...<BR/><BR/>Actually u gave me a topic to blog... <BR/>I would like to give link to ur blog n pick some extracts too... if u have no issues...<BR/><BR/>I luvd this post... <BR/><BR/>Take care <BR/>CheersPuNeEthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709220866751774513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129364492342987402005-10-15T16:21:00.000+08:002005-10-15T16:21:00.000+08:00@ Tarzan...kamaal hai...of coz you would keep it s...@ Tarzan...kamaal hai...of coz you would keep it simple in the jungle but thought this topic would be right up your alley :) as in jodiya jo banti hai, not toota hua ones :(<BR/><BR/>@ Sayesha...yaar...itni gum sum kyon? Grab some popcorn and a good comedy film and all will be right with the world again :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129360146453664882005-10-15T15:09:00.000+08:002005-10-15T15:09:00.000+08:00too complicated for me...got lost in the maze of X...too complicated for me...got lost in the maze of X and Y's...last i heard,they represented chromosomes !ritzkinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08455189308518267597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129355364850019892005-10-15T13:49:00.000+08:002005-10-15T13:49:00.000+08:00#ROS,Hahahahaha! That's the story of my life, girl...#ROS,<BR/><BR/>Hahahahaha! That's the story of my life, girl. Engineer by degree and editor by profession. :P<BR/><BR/>You can read about how that happened <A HREF="http://sayesha.blogspot.com/2005/04/crappy-jobs-ive-had.html" REL="nofollow">here</A> :)Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129354648678842842005-10-15T13:37:00.000+08:002005-10-15T13:37:00.000+08:00Oye Sash,Naah! You are dealing with a scientist he...Oye Sash,<BR/><BR/>Naah! You are dealing with a scientist here, no plagarism allowed here:O<BR/><BR/>BTW, here again..am dead confused about your profession...<BR/>Few days back, you commented on my blog that you were an engineer?? Now editor?? Girl plzz resolve the mystery...:)<BR/><BR/>BTW, I have posted my views..kuch likhna chaha, kuch aur likh deeya..ha! thats what they say about the "power of pen"..Err..keyboard!Rays Of Sunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16779818434762639889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129354368652301092005-10-15T13:32:00.000+08:002005-10-15T13:32:00.000+08:00#Virdi,Thanks, man. Exactly what I needed today.#A...#Virdi,<BR/>Thanks, man. Exactly what I needed today.<BR/><BR/>#Anonymous,<BR/>Lucky you :)<BR/><BR/>#Anon gal,<BR/>Thanks, dear. And yes, I do believe in the 'meant to be' theory. The happiest couple on earth could break up without reason just because it was not meant to be. And I have learnt to accept that.<BR/><BR/>#Nutty,<BR/>You have brought up a very important point. Marriage. It's too big a thing. There's such a huge difference between breaking up a relationship and breaking a marriage... it's scary... what is not too bad becomes despicable after marriage? Scares the hell outta me man... I have not figured out the whole marriage deal in my own head yaar... some day if I will, I'll write about it I suppose...<BR/><BR/>#Thanu,<BR/>Wish it were so straightforward. What if you're married and one of the reasons occur and you wanna "break up" with your spouse? Marriage makes a divorce out of a break-up. And that's scary shit. Sigh...<BR/><BR/>#ROS,<BR/>I always admire pple who can take a long distance long term relationship thru. Kudos to your cousin. :)<BR/><BR/>#Sylvy,<BR/>I know exactly what you mean, girl.<BR/><BR/>#Harshi,<BR/>Your comment is a post in itself. Well said. :)<BR/><BR/>#Vikram,<BR/>Oye get your ass back here and tell us!! :)<BR/><BR/>#Viv,<BR/>Yeah, I agree. Nutty's point is very scary, isn't it? <BR/>ps: And it's okay to quote pple as long as you mention the source (editor speaking). Sometimes, someone just says something in the exact words we would have said it, isn't it?<BR/><BR/>#Sahil,<BR/>True. Some people are in a relationship because they like the feel of being in one. Others are in a relationship because they like the feeling of being loved so much by another person. Both of which are not good enough reasons to stay on in the relationship.<BR/><BR/>I still don't agree about the whole 'bad person' thing. Yes, it is wrong to have an "affair" and one should break up with the first person before that happens. But sometimes the lines are fuzzy, and you're not sure at what point you'd already having an affair... could have been a really close friend who started becoming more special than just another friend, and one fine day, you find yourself in love with this other person... of course, when you do realise it, you break up with your original partner, but then you're already a bad person by then... we can't just state the exact date and time when such things happen... No pun intended, lekin kashtiyan toh sahil par aakar bhi doob sakti hain, nahin? <BR/><BR/>What if the person just feels that he will be much happier with the other person? After all, aren't we all living first for our own happiness, and then for others'? Aren't we all trying to stop ourselves from getting hurt before stopping others? The only person we will spend our life with, is ourself. And we have to keep that person happy, isn't it?<BR/><BR/>Human beings are so restless. We're always running after something that is a mirage, that was never really there. Perhaps it's time we should look at what we have, and what is really with us...<BR/><BR/>#ROS,<BR/>Gal you talkin' to an editor here. You write about this and behind bars you go! Any lawyers around??<BR/>ps: Kidding re! Blog away, babe! :P<BR/><BR/>. : A : ., <BR/>Thanks :)<BR/>I'm sure there are a million more though.<BR/><BR/>#Bhole,<BR/>Yeah, destiny boils down to my 'meant to be' theory. we're so helpless, aren't we?<BR/><BR/>#American Pi,<BR/>Catchya next weekend, buddy! :)<BR/><BR/>#Vikram,<BR/>Arre tu waapas aa gaya? :)<BR/>I agree with you. Sometimes, after a break up, you may need to be alone, or you may need some silent company, or you may need to talk, or you may wanna listen to certain things. Only close friends will know what exactly you need and provide that.Sayeshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04714384325271565917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129352062220412342005-10-15T12:54:00.000+08:002005-10-15T12:54:00.000+08:00Sayesha : Gossip Time when we talk, lot of gossip....Sayesha : Gossip Time when we talk, lot of gossip. ;)Pihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06303648173102629235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129345176234074552005-10-15T10:59:00.000+08:002005-10-15T10:59:00.000+08:00Sayesha...I believe its all about destiny/karma.Bh...Sayesha...I believe its all about destiny/<I>karma</I>.<BR/><BR/>BholeBholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04270430553480382173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10064462.post-1129341059668827682005-10-15T09:50:00.000+08:002005-10-15T09:50:00.000+08:00VEry interesting. Quite an exhaustive list.VEry interesting. Quite an exhaustive list.. : A : .https://www.blogger.com/profile/04410256917258728976noreply@blogger.com